something to ponder

I would like to share this to you guys,

a good friend of mine e-mail this to me.

I love it.

MAXIM FOR LIFE

	Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
	Memorize your favorite poem.
	Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
	When you say, "I love you", mean it.
	When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.
	Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
	Believe in love at first sight.
	Never laugh at anyone's dreams.
	Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
	In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
	Don't judge people by their relatives.
	Talk slow but think quick.
	When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?".
	Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
	Call your mom.
	Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
	When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
	Remember the three R's: Respect for self, Respect for others, Responsibility for all your actions.
	Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
	When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
	Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
	Marry a man you love to talk to. As you get older, his conversational skills will be as important as any other.
	Spend some time alone.
	Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
	Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
	Read more books and watch less TV.
	Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll get to enjoy it a second time.
	Trust in God but lock your car.
	A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
	In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
	Read between the lines.
	Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
	Be gentle with the earth.
	Pray -- there's immeasurable power in it.
	Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
	Mind your own business.
	Don't trust a man who doesn't close his eyes when you kiss him.
	Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
	If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth's greatest satisfaction.
	Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
	Learn the rules then break some.
	Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
	Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
	Remember that your character is your destiny.
	Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

nakakalito, nakakapagod pero go pa rin

simpleng bagay minsan nakakairita, halos masira na buong araw mo, bakit kaya ganun? siguro sa dami na ngyayari sa paligid natin kaya tayo nagkaganito.

sa mga ginagawa ng mga tao kaya siguro ganito na tayo umasta, naiinis, gustong sumigaw at magwala. nakakalito, nakakapagod, parang walang katapusan ang hirap ng buhay.

hay ang buhay nga naman, sana pag ibig na lang ang isipin (jolens kaw ba yan?) sa bawat kilos ng mga tao sa paligid sana lahat ng bagay na ginagawa nila dahil sa pag ibig.

ang hirap naman kasi ng buhay natin, kung lagi nasa baba tayo parang nasa baba na tayo forever kahit sabihin pa nila na aahon din tayo.

pero kelan pa? pag pumuti na ang uwak? mantakin mo na lang pag nag iisa ka diba? para atang lahat ng bagay dito sa mundo walang kasiguraduhan,

walang mag tatagal, puro hiram, pagkatapos ka ng pag sawaan iiwan ka,

kahit pag ibig di mo alam good terms kayo ngayon pero hindi mo alam bukas wala na.pano ba maging handa tayo? matatanggap kaya natin?

pano tayo makapag move-on kung yong bagay na gusto nating mangyari sa buhay ay yaong mga bagay na dapat kalimutan at di pwedeng gawin?

sobrang nakakalito no?yong gusto mo di naman pwede? yong ayaw mo sdya naman ang dadating? hay ewan ko ba? basta ako go with the flow na lang,

kung masakit man pilitin kung iintidihin the best i can, pilitin kung tanggapin no matter how it hurts, alam naman kasi natin na sisikat din ang araw after ng bagyo pero pano pag matanda ka na saka pa sisikat? unfair diba?

ang tagal tagal mong naghirap tapos malalampasan mo lang yon eh matanda ka na.nakakatawa... kaya sabay na lang tayo sa agos ng buhay natin. masaya man o malungkot, mahirap man o hindi go pa rin friend malay natin along the road magkasabay tayo diba?

just in case lang na magkasabay tayo hawak kamay tayo ha walang bibitaw, maganda di kasi pag may kasama ka, may kausap ka, may kaagapay ka sa t'wina..

nakss naman..hanggang dito na lang, at salamat sa pagbabasa.. ok?